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失去並非壞事

從小我們都被教育得到一詞，

好的成績、好的品格、好的朋友，

ㄧ路上爭取最好的給自己，

但卻沒人教我們失去，

因此當我們得不到或是某些東西消失時，

我們就容易感到挫折與失敗，

失去並非壞事，

而是一個正常的事情，

只要有得就會有失

只是再我們教育中並沒教導這一塊，

而當學習到失去，

通常都與重要人、事、物有關，

自然它就會被我們框架在壞的事物，

失去並不想像中那麼可怕，

它常出現在我們生命中，

小朋友的糖果不見是失去，

久為聯繫的朋友失聯也是失去，

心愛的人離開也是失去，

他並沒離我們很遠反而更貼近，

因此學習得到也要學習失去，

這是相互的，

只要能夠了解它，

當你在遇到時就能更坦然的面對它。

by 小藍


lose is not a bad thing 

We are taught how to get from childhood 

Good grades, good character, good friends,

for the best way to give yourself,

But no one taught us the lose,

So when we can not get, or something disappears,

We are likely to feel frustration and failure,

Lose not a bad thing,

it is a normal thing,

As long as you win will be lost

But then we did not teach this in education,

When learning to lose,

Is usually associated with an important person, and things related

Naturally it will be a bad thing in our framework,

Losing is not really that terrible,

It often occurs in our lives,

Children's candy but not the loss,

Long as the contact is lost to lose a friend,

Also lost a loved one to leave,

it was not very far away from us ,

So we have learn get and lost,

it is mutual,

we have to understand it,

And you will know how to face it.

by Little blue 

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